would you marry a girl who slept around

I dated a woman most wouldn't consider a beauty, but she was smart and funny and great in bed. Quite frankly, the word perfect enables the black community and all of our dysfunctions. Those who feel the need to take this approach typically have some deeper issues they are not properly addressing. Who are they sleeping with? Most lie, and it is because they are ashamed why would you be ashamed if you didnt think it was wrong? Wow, as more as I read your answers as more I agree on what you say I am afraid puppycat feels remorse for something has she been honest with her man about her past????? Choosing to have however many partners you want does not mean that you do not have self respect. For former redpillers and others who recognize the damage caused by redpill. I do have a job and a life. choose the best possible man, or to be exact, provider. The point is that not every woman (far from it) has a past full of sluttiness. ! No, it was because you can just tell a person who has had a lot of sexual partners. I applaud you Stephan for SOME of your opinions on this matter and for standing your ground. I dont know if youre a male or female judging by your username. Including that her family knows of this. Excellent point of view. women wait for 10 men and get to choose 1. you have issues so you didnt have problems with your wife introducing you to her exs and flirting with them..?? Personally, I am a bit old fashionedI just think that having so many partners that you are ashamed to admit the number is disgusting. And, why would she want you after all your wear and tear? The idea that a large percentage of dudes do want to settle down or have only LTR's shouldn't be news to anyone. What would Jesus do? Perhaps you should actually, you know, read comments on the thread that you are responding to before making assumptions. Dont assume her personality/morality based on her sexual history. People learn and grow from their experiences. Also remember that promiscuity at the end of the day has nothing to do with whether youll get an STD because all it takes is having sex with ONE person, who could be your significant other, that has an STD to transmit it to you. Every partner you have in your lifetime affects you whether is positive or negative so if a person man or woman goes through so many People Theyre going to have a lot baggage. Oh you left them because of that? We will not live forever and we are of the flesh. See I do not expect for anybody to be with someone that does not share some of the same core values that they have. Like half my high school classmates were married by 22 and there were peobably more men and women in my classes in college talking about their girlfriends they adore or fiances or their wives than any amount of dudes talking about casual hookups. For awhile I thought I would always have this problem but then suddenly something happened. Can you label them accurately? so much more than women!! He controls himself. Because the why rather than the number of men is what really should be discussed in order to better understand who this woman has been and has become. No ones fully mature in their 20s. ConsistentlyI foundand my friends agree, that these women with basketball numbersare the ones more likely todo littlemore flirting, and view thisas well asother innapropriate thingsas no big deal. Its like buying a car with 1,000,000 miles on the odometer lol!!! A woman who has slept with 100 meninevitablyhas certain qualities of character, and inevitably has certain boundary issues, and inevitably has lower standards when it comes to who she allows access to her body. In the end your selling yourself short. Bascially what im saying is if we never had numbers to say oh well having sex with 20 men makes you a hoe then we would have to base that on how she occured those sex partners. Look into the galena rhoades study. 1) difference between studs and hoes. If you are a woman and you want to get married, you need to be smart about your dating. Peace. Im surprised by the comments Ive seen so far! Its about having standards that say, as a man, if Im going to marry and commit my life to someone, its going to be someone with the self-respect and characterto have not been a whore. Facebook. Report. Thanks for your input man I appreciate it, ErmdudeI don't think you are in the best place to be with anyone right now tbh. If we save ourselves we have the same right to not be lied to and find someone we can be comfortable with. But you know what, screw it. They are hard limits for a reason. Im done now . Where to begin The way i look at this, is it shouldnt matter how many partners she has. If the actions belie the words, go with the actions. You don't have to carry that baggage. In my eyes it matters is someone has had a decent approach to love and sex. Im not condoning it but I think we should keep an open mind about it. Nobody wants to end up with the town whore who every guy has ridden. You can question the theory of evolution, or gravity, or anything else, but your questioning doesnt impugn their validity. This is still me I was horrified but because I did not want to be judgmental and because we were already together I stuck it out. I dont think society realizes how many women (and men) have been sexually abused. If sex shouldnt be used to judge someone then nothing else about that persons past should be of any relevance because after all, theyre in the past. Good for you! They usually have lower self-esteem, dont believe they can get better, and FEAR they wont be able to connect with another woman they like in the future, so they settle for something sub-standard. Guess what? I can understand your disagreement with people sleeping around. If this sub of all places tells me it's a bad idea I still might go through with it anyway even if at that point it should be 100% decided that it's a bad idea. So if you have a woman who has X amount of partners but have truly addressed her issues then I do not believe she will have a higher rate of divorce over the woman who has only had one partner but a slew of issues she has not properly addressed. We should strive to be righteous. Also as I stated, women know that regardless of this article most men will judge them. Redpill and PUA groups can't do that because their inherent premise is that women are lesser and that abusive action is acceptable toward them. I have yet to meet a woman that has had more than 50 sex partners and was in a solid, healthy, balanced, loving relationship. Whatever. Strength and confidence have nothing to do with it in my opinion. But then you are honest with them and now they arent so sure You can do that without ever knowing how many partners she had. Ps if women werent sluts you wouldnt be on this planet. Some she didnt even remember their names

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